The Art of Surrender
Babe we’ve all been there—body insecurities, cultural shame, performance anxiety—they suck so hard, and not in the good way. We all get in our heads about sex for a multitude of reasons, but only because we’ve become so disconnected from ourselves. We forgot (or never learned how) to listen to the language of our bodies.
But you’re here now, which is a great sign that you are ready to ease into deeper intimacy, and this is the perfect place to begin.
The Physiology of Letting Go
When you get stressed your mind is racing, your body shifts into “fight-or-flight” mode—muscle tension increases, especially in your pelvic floor—making it difficult to relax into intimacy. The problem is true bliss happens when your nervous system can relax. That’s when blood flow flows freely, muscles soften, and your body is physically primed for intimacy. When your nervous system feels secure, you actually can let go—creating room for deeper pleasure. Deeper sounds great!
But you have a lot of roadblocks on your way there.
1. Performance Anxiety
There’s a deeply ingrained belief that sex has to “go well” or be a certain way—orgasm-focused, flawless, movie-scene sexy. That kind of pressure turns sex into a test instead of an experience.
2. Body Image & Insecurity
When you’re busy judging how your body looks, it’s hard to tune into how it feels. Many people, especially women, have internalized messages about needing to look perfect or be desirable rather than actually desiring.
3. Cultural Shame & Silence
Sex is still taboo in many cultures. If you grew up in a home or community that framed sex as dirty, wrong, or only for certain purposes, it can be hard to feel free or relaxed about it—even years later.
4. Trauma or Past Negative Experiences
Previous pain, coercion, or even just awkwardness can make the body tighten and the mind spin during intimacy. You might be “fine” on the surface but subconsciously bracing for something to go wrong.
5. Lack of Emotional Safety
If you don’t feel fully safe or connected with your partner, it’s almost impossible to fully surrender. The mind stays on alert, scanning for any signs instead of trusting and going with the flow.
6. Disconnection from the Body
Many people spend most of their time in their heads—at work, on screens, in stress. Then suddenly during intimacy, they’re expected to drop into their body and feel present. That transition is hard without some intentional slowing down.
The key is to not remain complacent, and definitely don’t give up. There’s hope and we’re here to give it to you…
The Kunda For You
Whether you’re flying solo or partnered up, connection to yourself and others begins with being present and relaxed. We know it sounds cliché but it really is true. So to help get you there, the doctor founders at Kunda concocted two suppositories for your pleasure.
Blossom
Blossom is your go-to for softening tension and easing discomfort that can block connection. With calming cannabinoids such as CBD and CBG, and hydrating hyaluronic acid, it’s designed to help you drop into your body and feel at ease—especially when cramps, tightness, or anxiety have been getting in the way of intimacy.
Nourish
Nourish offers gentle, cannabis-free support with a focus on hydration and tissue repair. Powered by vitamin E and hyaluronic acid, it’s ideal for times of hormonal shifts—like postpartum or perimenopause—when sensitivity and dryness can make closeness feel complicated. Nourish helps bring back moisture, comfort, and calm.
Both drops are made with organic cocoa butter and organic beeswax to ensure a smooth and sexy glide in the front and back.
Almost There…
If you’re easing into intimacy after a dry spell, softening tension that’s been holding you back from the big O, or simply wanting to feel more you in your own body—there’s a Kunda drop for you. Blossom and Nourish were both made to meet you right where you are, right where you need it most.
